Of Virginity and Social Media!

Many heads might turn out of the page reading the title of the blog. But hold on I'm just trying to say virginity and social media have many a things in common, though social media is a rather bigger world! Rather than calling it just social media I'd call it the "Social Media World." Be it for business or for finding clues on your cheating girl friend it has it all. It is no longer limited to uploading photos, videos or saying a 'Hi' over the chat. Things have changed quite a lot during the years and people have become socially addict. From the rusty looking desktops to the sling and amazing tablets and not to forget the finger cracking cell phones. I felt love lost for the thing until I entered the world. Changes in the way I saw and experienced the well being of being one!

Facebook 

The World Before being a virgin!

The 800 million people baby and counting! The thing seemed to be so boring and obnoxious. Hardly would I socialize for a couple of minutes, check my notifications, checkout the friend requests (ohhh! hi der do i kno u?)  have a look at couple of profiles and its all over.

Its a Change!

The day I entered the world I realized its more than that and the day you find out you have many thousands loving to read your words or liking your images. So all this is just for my salary? nope! Its all about how well I can leverage from the social media world and how can I get ideas splurging out of my head into the pages!

Twitter


The World Before being a virgin!

My last tweet was some 3 months ago before I realized that the Twitter world is rather more expressive than  the Facebook world. I would hardly tweet and just see people tweeting at exorbitant rates enough to even have a blink!

Its a Change!

The hash tags, the mentions and the twitter world grew with the better know how of the twitter world. It was   a race of hash tags and me tweeting wild!

FourSquaure 


The World Before being a virgin!


Alright, I never knew the term and never came across it until it happened. From the stupid Facebook thing "I was here"that was more of like a show off" and had no use to me.

Its a Change!

Tadaaaa!! I realize that Foursquare gives you better rewards for "checking-in" (that sounds more genuine!) at various places. Had a friend of mine becoming the 'Mayor' of many places and being highly rewarded.

Blogging!

The World Before being a virgin!

The first blog being made, writing everything true on your favorite artist, only to be seen the blog being smeared by porn links and business links! So I give up on blogging....

Its a Change!

My friend says I have a blog on this thing and I'm like that's great and that took me from within and I started my blog. It gathered some cobweb over the time but I made my mind and here I'm!

Losing my Social Virginity!

From Facebook to Twitter and blogging to Pinterest I lost my social virginity and there I'm a Social Media Evangelist laid and being made out :)

Social Busy-ness!

With the introduction of Web 2.0 the web space the social networking platform is quite giving the developers the run for their money. Started off as a means for communication and also a tool for business Facebook, Twitter and so on have become the epitome of business communication and has revolutionized the old and capsizing trend of direct marketing and business. Companies small, large or even your local stores have started to make use of the cost effective yet influential means to make their business worthwhile to the consumers.

For example the other day I visit my age old Kirana Store (Grocery store) near to my place to buy couple of household stuff, I get the usual stuff and was about to leave and the guy at the store asks me, " Arey Sir aap woh Facebook mein ho na? tmere phone mein bhi chalta hai!humare dukan ke naam ka ek account banaya hai " (Are you there on Facebook? even I have an application on my phone, I have even made an account by the name of our shop) and the smile follows, needless to say I too responded hysterically, "accha hai" (Good).

And here I wonder a couple of days from now there would be people following his page and soon he would start tweeting # welcome to Social Media world.  

Social Networking a Boon or a Apocalypse?

Before we start off to something, do you know the number of SOCIAL NETWORKING (profiles or countries apparently,  facebook being almost enormous as a country :) ) ?Or hey, how many friends do you have on your facebook page and was the last hour you didn't Tweet? Here are a certain few questions you could crack your brains on...

There was a time during the 90's when internet addiction had begun to the stage where we stand now the so called SOCIAL NETWORKING ERA, wherein the first thing you wake up in the morning you pick your phone, and put a Tweet or update your facebook page saying GOOD MORNING!and there is the poor alarm still trying to wake you up :) and the day has just begun.........

The list of your ever growing virtual friends never comes to an end until you loose your counting, with the increase in the number of new social networking business, the more you find yourself switching between your windows on your desktop or your laptop?There have been a list of social networking suicides, extortions sexual harassments, the list seems to be never ending which seems to be increasing with more news for the newspapers and the magazines.

This addiction more of like the Drug addiction needs a rehabilitation centre or has to have a cure within itself?
     

Here are a few tips that can help you monitor your social network use, and ensure that you are being productive instead of wasting time.

• Track Your Time Online – The simplest way to ensure you aren’t wasting time in any one place is to monitor your time.  Use a stopwatch and set a limit.  When time is up, log out, regardless of what’s left.  There is always tomorrow.
• Remember the Telephone -  I know, it’s so primitive.  But a call to a friend works just as well as a Facebook message, and it is real human interaction, something we are losing touch with.
• Go Outside – get away from your portal to the network.  Get some sunshine, chances are you need it.
• Limit Your Memberships – There is no need for memberships to 15 different networks.  In fact, there is no need for even 2 memberships of sites which do the same thing.  Choose Facebook or Myspace, but not both.  Digg, or StumbleUpon.  This will probably cut your memberships in half, and hopefully cut the time spent on them down also.
• Use Your Networks Productively – When I first used twitter I followed anyone, and had thousands of followers.  Strangely though, people rarely responded to my twits, and it was like I was invisible.  I decided I’d only use twitter if I could be productive with it, so I unfollowed thousands of users (now below 200),  and use Twitter only to share and interact with people with similar interests as mine.  Now my Twitter is a tool, not a time warp.
• Prioritize - Use these tools only when your work has been done, or during down time.  Don’t spend time updating your profile or changing your pic when there is work to be done.  This will not only save you time and increase productivity, but will build self discipline as well.
• Stop Procrastinating – Many times we get on Facebook or twitter when we have real work that we just don’t want to do.  Stop that!  Get the work done.  Once you finish you’ll have all the time in the world to spend making friends on Facebook.
• Remove the Cellphone Apps – You don’t really need Facebook or Twitter on your phone.  Nothing on there can be that important.  Save your social networking for when you are behind the desk and limit the distractions throughout the day.
• Spend More Time With Close Friends and Family – You aren’t the only one who suffers when you spend countless hours on MySpace.  Your family and friends don’t see you, because you are too busy learning how to customize your backgrounds and take crazy pictures from all different angles for your profile pic.  Cut out the cancer and get back to friends and family.

Like they say, "Three and four is a group, the rest is all crowd !"

So the best cure for the so called SOCIAL NETWORKING CANCER is get back to your group where they still need you !

Ye olde Facebook- The pirates on your Facebook Deck!!!

 Tired of seeing the same old dull facebook page?There is an addition to the list of languages around the world apart from French, Spanish and English.You heard it right matey! This is what your facebook status sounds with the English(pirate) option on your Facebook..
The pirate talks actually gives you the nostalgic feeling of Jack Sparrow of The Pirates of Caribbean =)
There are terms like, lets say
The search option on the top reads as "Scour"
If you get a friend Request it says "a sorry lout thinks yer mateys!"
One of the best of them all the "like" option which sounds as "Arrr!"
All this things actually makes your hours and hours of socializing much interesting...
For those interested the option is available on your Facebook language settings.

 So Mateys! if ya all wanna enjoy yer facebook experience try it.....                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

Dis-Like.

My friend puts a status down on his facebook profile, "Bed ridden with a bad fever at home! = ( "
I pity him I don't "LIKE"his status....
Oh! I forgot there was never a "DISLIKE"option in facebook.
This is the reaction I had when I didn't "LIKE" a comment.Why doesn't your facebook page have a dislike button?

Why Can't you ?
Perhaps, one of the reason Facebook creator Mr. Mark and his team would not consider adding a "DISLIKE" button to your page is something which reminds him of the MySpace letting people allow negative comments and which was one of the reason for its fall-down.
So you go through a couple of videos and you don't like this certain something so how do you "DISLIKE" it?
I know first "LIKE" the status for a few days and then Unlike it, the person would certainly get his regards =)
Well, unofficially though you can find a "DISLIKE" button on your page,  but as soon as you click it(only if you are a Mozilla Firefox user!)it redirects you to installing an add-on which  it claims to be a way you can "DISLIKE" something, the next thing you hear all your friends getting on your nerves, because you unknowingly have advertised the fake "Official Facebook dislike button" to all your friends, continuing the cycle..
So the next time around you don't like a comment just turn your heads there was never a "DISLIKE" button

Social Media Monetised

When was the last time didn't come across an advertisement on your facebook or Twitter page?With the modern trend of socializing through the internet, people stuck to their computer screens for work, socializing, and finding your favourite recipe over the internet!! the modern marketers have started banking on people by branding their products or services which acts as an addition to the exiting business.

http://searchengineland.com/how-to-monetize-social-media-the-right-way-27831